This was written and posted on my Facebook page about three years ago. It chronicles a Sunday walk that turned into a show of respect to those Bath Countians who had paid the ultimate sacrifice during wartime or were veterans of the many conflicts our nation has endured.
On
a recent sunny Sunday afternoon, my son TJ and I took one of our usual
walks into town. Not far from our house is the Owingsville Cemetery, a
place TJ loves to walk through. He is fascinated by the grave markers
and always asks whose name is on each one as we pass. The walk around
the memorial grounds is calming to me; it is very quiet and a serene
there, with a view of the mountains and hills to the East that puts a
person in a relaxed mood. It is also an easy place to walk with the
kids; no cars zooming by to worry about, just a leisurely strolling
area. Lately, though, I have noticed several grave markers that have
fallen over or have cut grass or other debris obscuring the names. Many
graves stand forgotten due to their age and ancestors who have passed on
or do not live in the area.
While TJ and I were walking, he
darted up the hill into a section of old, tall monolithic graves that
dated from the early 1800's to the 1920's. He asked his usual whose
name was inscribed, and I noticed one in particular that was a Civil War
Veteran. I brushed off the grass that covered the name and read the
inscription, the person buried there was a member of the 14th Kentucky
Mounted Rifles, a Confederate unit in the Civil War. I told TJ that it
was a soldier and he was on a mission from there, going from grave to
grave looking for soldiers. A short distance away, I found a metal
marker face down. After I turned it over and cleaned it off some, it
told of another Civil War Soldier, James Willeroy, who was a Lieutenant
with the Northern Virginia Army's 13th Division and was killed in 1862.
The rest of the inscription read, "Will some loving hand please
decorate this lonely grave, is the request of his only surviving brother
now living in a distant state." It was at that point I felt some
sympathy for the souls buried under this ground I was standing on. Here
this grave marker told of a plea for someone to maintain this site, and
it was lying broken on the ground, forgotten in history. I replaced
the marker as best as I could, then moved on. I was now intrigued and
wanted to see just how many more soldiers who had been lost in history
lay in the ground around me. TJ would run over and find a tell tale
white marker and ask if the person was a soldier, and after I would come
look at the grave, indeed it was. TJ was getting into the mode I was
in, cleaning off the grass and debris along with me. We found many
graves of soldiers from both sides of the Civil War, The
Mexican-American War, World War I and II, Korea, Vietnam, and one of the
most recent, a soldier from Owingsville who was killed in Iraq in
2007. TJ and I wandered through the sections of the cemetery cleaning
off as many grave sites as we could, I took the time to read what
conflict they served in if any and what unit they may have been with. I
found one grave of a sailor who was killed when his aircraft carrier
was struck by suicide planes during one of the most famous battles in
World War II, I'm sure few know the historical significance etched into
that marble stone.
Each grave marker told a story in history, and told a lonely tale of many who have been lost to history and essentially abandoned. Granted, during Memorial Day, there are flags put on many of the graves, but I'm sure many are left by the wayside. Several of the markers have fallen over and broken, or have nearly been buried throughout the years, almost out of sight, out of mind. I know that now when I take my walks through the cemetery, I will pay more attention to those names on the marble or concrete stones and look for the stories within them; and continue to preserve at least a fraction of the respect these soldiers still deserve by brushing off the stones or attempting to stand a broken stone back on its base. Maybe if each person who visits their loved one's final place would also take an extra minute to do the same, these soldiers wouldn't be lost to history, it's just an idea ...
Each grave marker told a story in history, and told a lonely tale of many who have been lost to history and essentially abandoned. Granted, during Memorial Day, there are flags put on many of the graves, but I'm sure many are left by the wayside. Several of the markers have fallen over and broken, or have nearly been buried throughout the years, almost out of sight, out of mind. I know that now when I take my walks through the cemetery, I will pay more attention to those names on the marble or concrete stones and look for the stories within them; and continue to preserve at least a fraction of the respect these soldiers still deserve by brushing off the stones or attempting to stand a broken stone back on its base. Maybe if each person who visits their loved one's final place would also take an extra minute to do the same, these soldiers wouldn't be lost to history, it's just an idea ...
Wonder if people would actually donate to have new head stones made for the soldiers who are buried there. They would do it for there family maybe if enough pitched in at least something could be placed there showing they are still being respected
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